S3 E2 Confidence Reclaimed
What if the confidence you’re chasing isn’t missing at all, it’s already within you, waiting to be reclaimed with clarity, boundaries, and self-trust?
S3 E2 Confidence Reclaimed - The Soulie Insider
What if the confidence you’re chasing isn’t missing at all, it’s already within you, waiting to be reclaimed with clarity, boundaries, and self-trust?
In this episode of The Soulie Insider, I’m calling out the myths we’ve been sold about confidence and why so many high-achieving women still feel like they’re winging it, even when success looks solid on paper. This isn’t about faking it till you make it or chasing external validation, that only fuels high-functioning anxiety symptoms and keeps you stuck in survival mode.
You’ll hear me talk about why confidence feels shaky despite achievements, and how it often ties back to nervous system dysregulation and the constant fight or flight response we live in. I’ll share my four-step approach to reclaiming confidence from the inside out: reflection, celebrating small wins, setting boundaries that protect your energy, and practising self-compassion.
This conversation is about more than just mindset, it’s about embodied healing and gentle somatic recalibration so that confidence becomes steady, lived-in, and sustainable. By the end, you’ll feel supported in creating confidence that doesn’t collapse when someone questions your decisions, your work, or even your outfit. It’s the kind of recalibration every high-performing woman deserves.
Which of the four steps spoke to you most today? Come share it with me on Instagram @gaylewilson_ . I’d love to hear how you’re reclaiming your confidence with compassion and recalibration.
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In this episode we cover:
Why confidence feels shaky despite success
The “confidence gap”, 70% of women leaders struggle
External validation vs inner alignment
How high-functioning burnout hides behind polished success
Why “fake it till you make it” fuels performance and exhaustion
Four steps to reclaim confidence:
Reflect on your values
Own your small wins
Set boundaries that protect your energy
Practise self-compassion
How slow living for high achievers builds resilience
Closing reflections and encouragement
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